There is no single path to becoming a monk or a nun. Each of us must follow God’s individual call with patience and careful discernment.

We come from all ages, walks of life, and experiences, united by our shared belief in the power of deep, contemplative prayer and our pursuit of the centuries-old Rule of St. Benedict.

Becoming a nun or monk is a process—and a deeply personal one. Below, some of our Trappists brothers and sisters share their own stories in the hope that our words will aid others on the path to discern God’s will in their lives.

We invite you to read our stories and consider their relevance and resonance in your own life. If you would like to learn more, you are invited to speak with one of our vocation directors or read some of the frequently asked questions.